I've seen my married boss's profile on an online dating site. What should I do?

The best option would be to do nothing, says Jeremy Bullmore.

by Jeremy Bullmore

Q: Help! I've just spotted my manager's profile on an online dating site. He's married with two kids and I know his wife. I feel sick about it. What should I do?

Jeremy says: There's no perfect answer. Tell his wife - and you've interfered massively in the lives of two other people; and with unknowable, potentially disastrous consequences.

Tell your manager that you've identified him online - and you immediately become part of his deceit. It would do nothing to help his wife and would probably have no limiting effect on his behaviour.

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