It's driving us nuts, and it hasn't improved our abilities to get the job done. Should we risk telling him that we were happier as we were?
A: Oh, dear. I'm slightly reassured to learn that he's only 'just' returned from this management course. Much your best hope is that his zeal has all the staying power of a New Year's resolution and will soon exhaust itself.
However, it might be to everyone's advantage if that process could be accelerated. I don't know much about EQ (except that, mysteriously, it seems to stand for Emotional Intelligence) but I believe that many of its advocates argue that the best way of developing awareness of your own emotions is not through exchanging thoughts with others but through meditation. So why not thank your boss for introducing you to EQ and suggest that, instead of the weekly group discussions, you all commit yourselves to five minutes' meditation every morning? (It is one of meditation's greatest strengths that it is impossible for others to know what you are meditating about - or indeed, if you are.)
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