What's your problem?

I recently turned down a job offer with a new company, believing myself to be better off where I am. However, I have just had a paltry pay rise and been told that my workload will increase dramatically this year.

by Jeremy Bullmore
Last Updated: 31 Aug 2010

How likely would it be that the company I turned down would be prepared to offer me a second chance? I'm afraid I turned down the job rather high-handedly, and feel it would be difficult to crawl back to them, but staying where I am is no longer an option.

A: What on earth induced you to be high-handed? You should always be grateful to anyone who offers you a job. The moment you start thinking you're too good for them is the moment the offers will dry up. However, you may not have burnt your boats completely. Go back to them. No need to crawl; just be open. You've nothing to lose.

Jeremy Bullmore has been creative director and chairman of J Walter Thompson London and a non-executive director of the Guardian Media Group; he is a non-executive director of WPP. Address your problems to Jeremy Bullmore at: editorial@mtmagazine.co.uk. Regrettably, no correspondence can be entered into.


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